tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post2924172951274998577..comments2023-10-05T17:36:23.029+01:00Comments on Having my cake and eating it too: A is for AbortionJoanna Cakehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15944673677004607976noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-58777412884843088302007-09-05T19:41:00.000+01:002007-09-05T19:41:00.000+01:00You are some courageous woman cake!Now you just ha...You are some courageous woman cake!<BR/>Now you just have to keep blogging cause you need to write and write until you write the pain away.<BR/>Love and hugs for you <BR/>pxxFire Byrdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05477692359400671374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-1004614707291060302007-09-05T09:05:00.000+01:002007-09-05T09:05:00.000+01:00An uncomfortable post. Cake, What I really like ab...An uncomfortable post. <BR/><BR/>Cake, What I really like about you is that you never refuse to take responsibility for your actions, without beating yourself up about it. So much sadness, and you're still there, still smiling, wiser, and willing to share. An inspiration. Thank you.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09182126029037714531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-18096512087828990452007-09-05T09:00:00.000+01:002007-09-05T09:00:00.000+01:00You're very brave. You took responsibility for you...You're very brave. You took responsibility for your actions, and you did it without complaining.<BR/><BR/>And i really appreciate the accurate and non-melodramatic account of your experience. You taught me a thing or two that I hope i never have to know -- but it's good to know in any case.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you, Cake.<BR/><BR/>Love and hugs,<BR/>Juno xJuno Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02301519099484593154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-28165986148829064142007-09-05T02:42:00.000+01:002007-09-05T02:42:00.000+01:00All the very best. Such a hard thing to go throug...All the very best. Such a hard thing to go through for so many reasons. You have my best thoughts and love.<BR/><BR/>DxDarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12691040298320629603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-11937588011933574992007-09-05T00:17:00.000+01:002007-09-05T00:17:00.000+01:00Hugs from me as well. Not much else to say, honey....Hugs from me as well. Not much else to say, honey. xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-37874157666999561522007-09-04T23:05:00.000+01:002007-09-04T23:05:00.000+01:00Very honest and brutal account. Sorry I haven't b...Very honest and brutal account. Sorry I haven't been around to read what has been happening to you.<BR/><BR/>Hugs baby, I've been through it in the past as well.<BR/><BR/>xxVihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03765245225983839101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-60625070934548266032007-09-04T21:20:00.000+01:002007-09-04T21:20:00.000+01:00All my best wishes, hugs and thoughts are with you...All my best wishes, hugs and thoughts are with you, I hope you feel better soon.<BR/><BR/>Take care of yourself.Born Worrierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05312998173488041589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-24070014228975382052007-09-04T21:03:00.000+01:002007-09-04T21:03:00.000+01:00Just ... *hugs*. You did a brave and difficult th...Just ... *hugs*. You did a brave and difficult thing.<BR/><BR/>xx DeeDeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09293282711513429803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-42128532544080959622007-09-04T20:58:00.001+01:002007-09-04T20:58:00.001+01:00hope you feel better soon. You are a brave lady wh...hope you feel better soon. You are a brave lady who did the right thing for her family.xxnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01607938587468592277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-56262073211801511752007-09-04T20:58:00.000+01:002007-09-04T20:58:00.000+01:00hope you feel better soon. You are a brave lady wh...hope you feel better soon. You are a brave lady who did the right thing for her family.xxnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01607938587468592277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-3028302738185819972007-09-04T20:45:00.000+01:002007-09-04T20:45:00.000+01:00You bare very brave to share. Hope you can sense a...You bare very brave to share. Hope you can sense all the positive vibes from blogland.Southern Swingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01801001042327770765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-81977933820160701732007-09-04T19:38:00.000+01:002007-09-04T19:38:00.000+01:00HiI can symphasise with you, having been there too...Hi<BR/><BR/>I can symphasise with you, having been there too. I can remember the pain that you describe so much better than I ever could.<BR/><BR/>XXWild Cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04949803864154490705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-43093756627887566562007-09-04T18:54:00.000+01:002007-09-04T18:54:00.000+01:00ohsorry. i got about 7 sentances read .. can't rea...oh<BR/><BR/>sorry. i got about 7 sentances read .. can't read any more, hun, but you know that i am thinking of you<BR/><BR/>xBittersweethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02336289793698943669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-78418831978350547662007-09-04T18:15:00.000+01:002007-09-04T18:15:00.000+01:00You're a brave lady - with what you've physically ...You're a brave lady - with what you've physically and mentally been through, and with the way you've told us all about it here.Jackie Adsheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14422573807471118887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-50108300224138132032007-09-04T17:41:00.000+01:002007-09-04T17:41:00.000+01:00hey, have requested removal...Xhey, have requested removal...<BR/><BR/>XPeachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00981135228876996318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-2105972285461257312007-09-04T17:05:00.000+01:002007-09-04T17:05:00.000+01:00Cake!!!!!!!What to say that hasn't been said? I'm...Cake!!!!!!!<BR/><BR/>What to say that hasn't been said? I'm wishing you peace. You deserve that now.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11280822962202098606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-70070669229186001712007-09-04T16:54:00.000+01:002007-09-04T16:54:00.000+01:00I am glad you are feeling less nauseaous. It is ve...I am glad you are feeling less nauseaous. It is very courageous of you to be so honest in your telling of this episode in your life. I think its worth making sure the men of our age learn as well as us women. Too many men assume that its ok not to use condoms.<BR/>If I ever fell pregnant again it would be nothing short of a miracle but even so I still ask my lovers to use condoms not just for my Lady in redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02835625473505921821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-73634365747166695192007-09-04T16:03:00.000+01:002007-09-04T16:03:00.000+01:00peach - please, would you mind if I asked you not ...peach - please, would you mind if I asked you not to. It just doesnt feel right :(Joanna Cakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15944673677004607976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-32065378079671749372007-09-04T15:17:00.000+01:002007-09-04T15:17:00.000+01:00Oh and one more thing....Angela, we should all be ...Oh and one more thing....Angela, we should all be blessed with good friends like you. I think you're amazing.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14339140046788925506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-250052013124958702007-09-04T15:16:00.000+01:002007-09-04T15:16:00.000+01:00What a gut wrenching, raw and honest post Cake. S...What a gut wrenching, raw and honest post Cake. So sorry that you had to learn such a painful lesson but thanks for sharing it. I am around the same age and was also under the impression I am too old to get pregnant so thanks for setting me straight on that one.<BR/><BR/>I hope your body recovers soon and your mind and emotional well being even sooner. Big hugs to you.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14339140046788925506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-36885277147360928172007-09-04T14:20:00.000+01:002007-09-04T14:20:00.000+01:00So honest and frankly written, I hope you don't mi...So honest and frankly written, I hope you don't mind, I've nominated it for post of the week...<BR/><BR/><BR/>... I hope you're feeling better very soon XXXPeachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00981135228876996318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-59930919502720338912007-09-04T13:11:00.000+01:002007-09-04T13:11:00.000+01:00Honey, you thanked me much more than neccessary (I...Honey, you thanked me much more than neccessary (I found out when I popped into Tesco on the way home, you cow!)<BR/><BR/>Your honesty in these posts is amazing and I bet there will be hundreds of 'women of a certain age' having a rethink about contraception due to your brave recounting of your experience.<BR/><BR/>Ruf - if you don't give this woman stroky cuddles and footrubs all weekend I'll, Angela-la-lahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06776689345024699690noreply@blogger.com