tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post5278635592778275857..comments2023-10-05T17:36:23.029+01:00Comments on Having my cake and eating it too: Mars and VenusJoanna Cakehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15944673677004607976noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-53551137581220560692007-09-10T18:26:00.000+01:002007-09-10T18:26:00.000+01:00It was a conversation with another friend about th...It was a conversation with another friend about the vagaries of men that made me start to realise that so many of these discrepancies were common to most men. It's not that it's a fault on their part, more a problem for us because of the difference in our own expectations and interpretations. Once we can start to understand where a man is coming from, it's so much easier to deal with because Joanna Cakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15944673677004607976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-69866223060109406752007-09-10T18:13:00.000+01:002007-09-10T18:13:00.000+01:00Oh Cake, you said it so perfectly.... sigh... How ...Oh Cake, you said it so perfectly.... sigh... How can two people have such different ways of thinking ? god's cosmic joke...<BR/><BR/>Thought I could stop posting, but I can't... Hormones got the best of me, I'm afraid... Somehow, I didn't thinnk you'd mind... :)Constancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02702046097986873803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-22892266433291307222007-09-10T16:42:00.000+01:002007-09-10T16:42:00.000+01:00Bloody martians. Grr.xBloody martians. Grr.<BR/><BR/>xAngela-la-lahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06776689345024699690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-62996161962394624242007-09-10T08:11:00.000+01:002007-09-10T08:11:00.000+01:00It's weird, you know. Most men I know are exactly ...It's weird, you know. <I>Most</I> men I know are exactly like that ... but neither Apollo not Adonis are like that at all - if anything, they like the positive reinforcement even more than I do.<BR/><BR/>*hugs* Still thinking of you.<BR/><BR/>xx DeeDeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09293282711513429803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-80594216452304931732007-09-10T03:12:00.000+01:002007-09-10T03:12:00.000+01:00Amen, Cake.Amen, Cake.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11280822962202098606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-14855121389253764592007-09-10T02:04:00.000+01:002007-09-10T02:04:00.000+01:00It is the little things that count the most. Like...It is the little things that count the most. Like you mentioned, just sending a text lets you know for that moment in time they were thinking about you. The message doesn't even have to be relevant, because the message is the fact that you were in his thoughts. Why don't they get how important that is?<BR/><BR/>I think we women have to accept that men don't think the same way we do and the Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14339140046788925506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-53124398311961742722007-09-10T01:06:00.000+01:002007-09-10T01:06:00.000+01:00Women think, men don't. That's the main differenc...Women think, men don't. That's the main difference.Vihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03765245225983839101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-61530692261104574472007-09-09T23:29:00.000+01:002007-09-09T23:29:00.000+01:00Very well said. I especially love this one: He bel...Very well said. I especially love this one: <BR/><BR/>He believes that because he said he loved her yesterday, he doesn't need to say it again today. She fears that because he has not said it again today, it must no longer be the case.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-33085795254660078412007-09-09T22:05:00.000+01:002007-09-09T22:05:00.000+01:00your so right xyour so right xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-61581695925662977632007-09-09T20:02:00.000+01:002007-09-09T20:02:00.000+01:00This is just so true and so concisely expressed. W...This is just so true and so concisely expressed. Would you mind if I printed it out and hung it up somewhere as a constant reminder?Fat Controllerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09041653310357187641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-67849938720052676012007-09-09T19:55:00.000+01:002007-09-09T19:55:00.000+01:00I agree with la fille mariee, time is what is need...I agree with la fille mariee, time is what is needed. Time for you to recover. Hope you are ok. xNnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01607938587468592277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-84934263339024924442007-09-09T18:51:00.000+01:002007-09-09T18:51:00.000+01:00Wow, how right you are. I (we) behave in exactly t...Wow, how right you are. I (we) behave in exactly the same way.<BR/><BR/>xWild Cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04949803864154490705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-10348839032304735422007-09-09T17:09:00.000+01:002007-09-09T17:09:00.000+01:00You both need to be extra patient now, with yourse...You both need to be extra patient now, with yourselves and with each other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-42901936447580605192007-09-09T16:31:00.000+01:002007-09-09T16:31:00.000+01:00I think you have hit the nail on the head. I know ...I think you have hit the nail on the head. I know you are talking about you and Ruff but you just made me realise why Forest behaves the way he does.<BR/><BR/>thank youLady in redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02835625473505921821noreply@blogger.com