tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post8754901741581258876..comments2023-10-05T17:36:23.029+01:00Comments on Having my cake and eating it too: Justify My LoveJoanna Cakehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15944673677004607976noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-73785653633205864062009-04-04T23:04:00.000+01:002009-04-04T23:04:00.000+01:00LiR - That's the better way to be tho isnt it?Jade...LiR - That's the better way to be tho isnt it?<BR/><BR/>Jade - Thank you :)Joanna Cakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15944673677004607976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-20316625809728316972009-04-04T22:08:00.000+01:002009-04-04T22:08:00.000+01:00Ms. Cake, I came over here via Sugasm-I am so glad...Ms. Cake, <BR/>I came over here via Sugasm-I am so glad I did! A wonderful post, and just what I needed to hear at this moment. Thank you.<BR/><BR/>JadeJadehttp://piecesofjade.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-29083903306431577932009-02-19T12:04:00.000+00:002009-02-19T12:04:00.000+00:00A great post as always. I just wish I had read it ...A great post as always. I just wish I had read it a few days earlier. This is something I have been battling with.<BR/><BR/>I am still not comfortable with my skin but have grown to be more confident in myself personality wise and now I am beginning to see the rewards of being confident or at least seemingly confident. <BR/><BR/>I think though that I differ from you in that it is with those who Lady in redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02835625473505921821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-91448830649346134962009-02-18T22:11:00.000+00:002009-02-18T22:11:00.000+00:00BG - I shall put it on my list.SG - That last sent...BG - I shall put it on my list.<BR/><BR/>SG - That last sentence is a very good thing to remember.<BR/><BR/>Dazza/Nitebyrd - Im not sure Ive ever come across a man who was insecure int he same way.<BR/><BR/>Justme - But it isnt always possible to tell. Some of us shy ones can brazen it out in a crowd and on first appraisal but once we get into a relationship...<BR/><BR/>Krazy - You're welcome. IJoanna Cakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15944673677004607976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-11940893951734977382009-02-18T20:47:00.000+00:002009-02-18T20:47:00.000+00:00As Dazza said, the words apply to men as well as w...As Dazza said, the words apply to men as well as women. Nothing is worse than a wishy-washy man. I know it for a fact.nitebyrdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04967190902623933068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-25935246997663662192009-02-18T13:42:00.000+00:002009-02-18T13:42:00.000+00:00Excellent post. The ironic thing is that when you'...Excellent post. The ironic thing is that when you're insecure all the words in the world will never be enough, and that if someone supplies the words without the actions that can't be enough either.Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03062670395133324441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-79460009469634731222009-02-17T22:41:00.000+00:002009-02-17T22:41:00.000+00:00I think you got some very good advice, Mrs Cake. I...I think you got some very good advice, Mrs Cake. It's very odd that you should be uncertain of your attractiveness.Gorilla Bananashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13044093013423635830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-47994287465295827772009-02-17T19:17:00.000+00:002009-02-17T19:17:00.000+00:00I really needed to read this today. Thank you!I really needed to read this today. Thank you!Krazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17178371265607048712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-53468507940765336972009-02-17T17:11:00.000+00:002009-02-17T17:11:00.000+00:00I have always thought that confident people with a...I have always thought that confident people with an air of being at ease with themselves are the most attractive ones! Whatever they look like!justmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16768035027235782814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-43440539878065322512009-02-17T15:50:00.000+00:002009-02-17T15:50:00.000+00:00Nicely put and very true. The same also goes for ...Nicely put and very true. The same also goes for men, of course, something that I'm only just beginning to understand myself. <BR/><BR/>Daren<BR/>xxDarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12691040298320629603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-22765242877551060822009-02-17T13:25:00.000+00:002009-02-17T13:25:00.000+00:00Thank you Ms. Cake for the words of wisdom. I wou...Thank you Ms. Cake for the words of wisdom. I would add that we girls who are 'here,' seeking something beyond what is home...compounds our insecurities even moreso. And really, words can just be empty shells, without all the little things that go with them. Love yourself first, others will be drawn to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6493386230053818260.post-67198613008155067502009-02-17T10:52:00.000+00:002009-02-17T10:52:00.000+00:00Fantastic post! I've just been reading a book by N...Fantastic post! I've just been reading a book by Naomi Wolf called 'Promiscuities' which if you've not already read I think you'd really enjoy, the title is a tad misleading, really it's about the development of female sexuality and why. <BR/>Hugs BG xBenefitScroungingScumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08939136229593231935noreply@blogger.com