Tuesday, 20 May 2008

TMI Tuesday #135

1. How many credit cards do you own? Are they paid off?

Five and yes - every month. I don't believe in paying high rates of interest unnecessarily. I would rather dip into an authorised overdraft to pay it off and then live more frugally the following month.

2. Can you be in love with someone you don't trust?

For a while maybe. Your psyche will overlook things that, instinctively, it doesn't like because, in the beginning, it is controlled by your genitalia. But it doesn't take long before that overpowering urge has been satisfied and those little niggling feelings start raising their heads to the surface and putting out too many doubts.

3. Should prostitution be legal?

I have yet to be persuaded of a reason why it should not be. Surely it would be safer for everyone concerned.

4. On a scale of 1-10, how good of a lover do you think you are? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest)

If I'm in love with you, I'd give myself a 9. My goal is to please you no matter what and I will take the time to discover what and how you like it best, as well as being willing to venture into all sorts of uncharted areas to satisfy your desires.

5. What are three mistakes someone could make on the first date with you that would automatically make you turn down a second date with them?

Not make me the centre of their attention for the entire date, ie talk about their previous girlfriend and how great she was incessantly.

Make me pay for everything.

Leave me sitting there whilst they make a quick getaway out of the toilet window.

Bonus (as in optional): Tell us about your worst date ever.

A blind date with my best friend's mate as a foursome. I just don't know what she was thinking! He was soooo not my type to look at or in personality. We went to a pub and, despite my best efforts, the conversation was just dull. After three tortured hours, he then drove us home in thick fog and came close to killing us when he overtook a vehicle he thought was going too slowly but was unable to see what was coming the other way. Never again.

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Biscuit said...

I so envy those of you with no debt. Of course a lot of ours is medical, but it's debt all the same.

Vi said...

My date on Sunday made the mistake of trying to hold my hand...try to get me in his car... trying to snog and grope me. After knowing me for all of two hours.

Ms. Inconspicuous said...

I don't think I've had a date make an exit through the toilet window, but I can only imagine that it'd be a rather large turn-off.

I completely forgot about the talking-incessantly-about-the-ex thing too. Ugh.

Happy TMI.

Anonymous said...

"Make me pay for everything" -- Jesus, has someone done that???? Men!

having my cake said...

Biscuit - I didnt say I had no debt, just no credit card debt :)

Vi - Too much too soon

MsI - LOL, It's been so long since Ive had a date that I had to pick things that might upset me if I were to have one now :)

Isa - As I said, it's been a while so all suggestions purely hypothetical.

Gorilla Bananas said...

I'm so glad that "trying to feel me up" wasn't one of the three mistakes. It would have sounded very uncakey!

Vixen said...

Loved your #4.......


having my cake said...

Mr Bananas! *Looks shocked* I hope I would never be foolish enough to select someone so crass as to attempt that on a first date. Despite my blog personality, in reality I truly am quite a lady :)

Vixen - Thank you.

Walker said...

Great answers.

You're supposed to go to restaurants without windows in the washroom except the ladies of course.

Amorous Rocker said...

Eek! What an awful blind date. Great #5! Talking about ex's at length is never a smooth move on dates, lol. Happy late TMI! Have a great day.